#71

Michelle, finally i reached Vivo City today,haha..i have to escort my cousin,since she has to go back to Jakarta next week, how was your weekend?!, i bet you went to Cambridge again!,hahahaha
Today, i want to discuss about Friendship, since i saw the rack designed with books like the picture, haha..'
How is Friendship really works?, Does it ever work or the story is just as thick as the book?.

For me, i dont really believe in Best Friend, since 2009, i dont have best friend, and i dont need it, i do have a lot of friends who are always there for me, and i can learn and improve together with them, sometimes, when i feel blue, i feel dont know what to do, really stressed out, i dont know who i can find to help me and to solve my problem, i feel like no one will help me, not even God.
But its not true, the one who will help Yourself is You, when you treat others as appropriate as it is, anyone will try to help you even you dont even ask for it, but , when no one comes, and you feel alone, you will learn something from your problem which makes you will not fall for the second time in the same hole.
I always try to do things all by myself, it is more comfortable and faster for me, but sometimes, i admit that i do really need friends.
In this case, i want to tell you a bit story about my close friends, who are always there when i need them,
One, is the one you will surely know, cause we ever made a scene (hahahahaha) in her place,

Jilly Chandra, sometimes , as friend, she is the most helpful one, she almost never say no if i ask her to help me, i met her since 2005, and she has been one of my closest friend, and she is also a good listener, maybe she cant always give me a good advice(hahahaha), but she is good at listening, coz you know , the very talkactive guy like me ,needs friend who listens, and she is good at it, and because of her, i did good in my maths when i was still in high school ,and thats why sometimes i have to feel sorry that havent really can act as good friend,hahaha..

Alexander Lieman, this guy is the smartest guy i ever met, he is my closest friend from my Campus, i learnt a lot from him too, he is the type of friend who is reliable. When you need someone to help you to solve the problem, he will be there, to ask you one by one, and Actively try to solve it with you together, one of it , when you need someone to teach you about your school things, he always take a part to try to help you.with his style, he has a style which rarely i cant find if i compare with another friends, he will help you to solve the problem, but he will not take all parts of your problem to solve it, like when you are studying, he will not give you the answer, but he will teach you how to find the answer!, see..this is type of friend which can improve you!

Christy Lim, this plain girl who i assumed like my own sister, has been a very good friend for me, until now, haha... when i still in high school, i never passed my english test. After that, i asked her to teach me, she taught me grammar from SMA 2 to 3, when we were going to have test tomorrow, she will not go back after class, she sit at the library and read all of the materials for tomorrow, after i came in , she started to teach me, sometimes it went up to 2 hours, and its not rare she almost cried when she taught me that book,hahahaha...and Hence, i feel i have the support to continue my next education overseas,even until now my english hasnt really good yet, and started to learn IELTS and now, i am sitting here at Singapore, studying Australian books.

When Caroline reads this, she will ask why i dont write her name here, the problem is , because she will view this page, so its lazy for me to write you( caroline),hahahaha

Overall, What i am trying to say at here is, Why we need Best Friend(singular) if We can have amazing FriendS ( prular) ?, the friends those i told you at here are just 3 of them, there are still lots of my closest one which i will describe it later in one day, Like the Books in that Picture there, lots of it,not just one. hahaha...
So i hope you inspired and learnt something from this ,as you learn something when you read the books.

Have a nice weekend! Michelle!
In State of Heart